Nkuko baca umugani ngo, "imyenda y'imbere ni uruhu rwa kabiri rw'umugore", abantu benshi ntibita cyane ku guhitamo imyenda y'imbere, mubyukuri, imyenda y'imbere itari myiza kumubiri wabo yangiza bikomeye, imyenda y'imbere ntabwo yambara neza gusa cyangwa yose umuntu ni igikundiro kitagira akagero. Uyu munsi turareba uburyo bwo guhitamo imyenda y'imbere mubyiciro bitandukanye kugirango tugufashe kwirinda ipfunwe no kurekura igikundiro imbere.
Kuva ku myaka 7 kugeza kuri 14 abakobwa bari mugihe cyiterambere ryurubyiruko, abakobwa muriki cyiciro muguhitamo imyenda y'imbere mbere na mbere kuri plastiki, ibikoresho nabyo ni byiza guhitamo imyenda myiza yimyuka ihumeka neza, kuburyo iyo bakinnye siporo irashobora gukuramo ibyuya byuzuye, kugumya umwuka. Icya kabiri, mugihe duhisemo imyenda y'imbere, dukwiye guhitamo uburyo bworoshye, kuko burimo gukura, gukomera cyane bishobora guteza ibyangiritse. Hanyuma, mugihe uhisemo imyenda y'imbere, nibyiza guhitamo imyenda isanzwe ya siporo. Imyenda y'imbere ikuze cyane izagira ingaruka kumikurire yumuntu wose.
Abakobwa b'ingimbi barushijeho gukura haba mubitekerezo ndetse no mumubiri. Imyenda yoroheje ya siporo ntikibakwiriye, bityo abakobwa muriki cyiciro bagomba kwambara imyenda yimbere hamwe nimpeta zicyuma muguhitamo imyenda y'imbere. Inyungu nini yubwoko bwimbere ni uko ishobora kugira uruhare runini rwo gushiraho no gutera inkunga igituza, ariko twakagombye kumenya ko ubwoko bwimyenda y'imbere butorohewe cyane kuruta iyindi myenda y'imbere, kubwabakobwa bakiri bato mugihe cyiterambere kugirango wibuke kuyambara kugirango uryame, kugirango udatera ibyangiritse bitari ngombwa.
Kwonsa inshuti zabakobwa igituza muri rusange kizagira iterambere rya kabiri, iki gihe cyo kugura imyenda yimbere ukurikije impinduka mumabere kugirango uhitemo. Mbere ya byose, dukwiye guhitamo imyenda yimbere yonsa byoroshye, kugirango twirinde guteza ibibazo umubyeyi wubutunzi, icya kabiri, dukwiye kwitondera ihumure, muriki cyiciro cyinshuti zabakobwa igituza kirushijeho kumva, ntabwo rero bivuze agasakoshi kabo, hitamo imyenda y'imbere nziza, kora abantu bose kurushaho.
Mubusaza, ba nyirasenge na ba nyirakuru benshi ntibumva ko bakeneye kwambara imyenda y'imbere, ariko ntibabyumva. Iyi stade ntabwo yambara igituza cyimbere byoroshye guswera, umuntu wese wambaye imyenda azaba mubi cyane nta miterere. Ku nshuti zabakobwa muriki cyiciro, ubwiza nubwa kabiri, cyane cyane witondere kuborohereza, abantu benshi muriki gihe amaboko nibirenge ntabwo byoroshye nka mbere, urashobora rero guhitamo ubwoko bwikariso ifungura imbere, byoroshye kuyikuramo. kandi byoroshye kwambara, igitugu cyigitugu nacyo cyahisemo kwaguka gato, kugirango wirinde kwangirika kwintugu, ibikoresho nabyo nibyiza guhitamo ibyuya byoroshye kandi byoroshye umwuka mwiza, kuzenguruka kwikirere neza.
Ku bagore, imyenda y'imbere ntabwo ari ubwoko bwimyambaro yigenga gusa, ahubwo ni nuburyo bwiza kandi bwiza mubuzima.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Mutarama-30-2023